What do you do if you want someone to appreciate what u do before it’s too late ?
this question is kind of broad, so i am going to try to cover several corners.
what is crazy is that appreciation is one of those things you cannot force from anyone. just like love… we cannot force anyone to love us back or with the same love we give out. what i find effective is first, communicating how i feel to the other person. i make sure they know exactly how i feel to give us that space to strengthen that area. once the situation begins to take a toll on me or effect me in ways that aren’t pleasant, i take that energy to a place where it will grow & be more fruitful. that could be into myself or into others around me that will appreciate it without the regret i feel when giving it. i am not saying to cut that person off. im saying that sometimes it may take them to lose that effort they get from you in order for them to really see it. now if you are just beating a dead horse or trying to breathe life into a dead situation, i say to re-evaluate the entire situation. you have to do what is best for yourself; life is too short. remember: you have the power to determine when it is too late. but if there is hope, i pray i answered your question.
